Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Words


A few we love (on the topic of love):

"The salvation of man is through love and in love. He who has a why to live can bear with almost any how."
Victor Frankl

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"Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction."
Antoine de Saint-Exupery

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"If you want something to last forever, you treat it differently. You shield it and protect it. You never abuse it. You don’t expose it to the elements. You don’t make it common or ordinary. If it ever becomes tarnished, you lovingly polish it until it gleams like new. It becomes special because you have made it so, and it grows more beautiful and precious as time goes by. Eternal marriage is just like that. We need to treat it just that way."'
F. Burton Howard*

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"I suppose no one is as handsome or as beautiful as he or she wishes, or as brilliant in school or as witty in speech or as wealthy as we would like, but in a world of varied talents and fortunes that we can't always command, I think that makes even more attractive the qualities we can command - such qualities as thoughtfulness, patience, a kind word, and true delight in the accomplishment of another. these cost us nothing, and they can mean everything to the one who receives them."
Jeffery R. Holland

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"We feasted on love; every mode of it, solemn and merry, romantic and realistic, sometimes as dreamatic as a thunderstorm, sometimes comfortable and unemphatic as putting on your soft slippers.  She was my pupil and my teacher, my subject and my sovereign, my trusty comrade, friend, shipmate, fellow-soldier.  My mistress, but at the same time all that any man friend has ever been to me." 
C.S. Lewis

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"To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung, and possibly be broken. ...Christ did not teach and suffer in order that we should become more cautious of our own happiness, even in our natural loves. If a man is not uncalculating, and in that way reckless in loving his earthly beloveds whom he has seen, how will he be in his love for God, whom he has not seen? We should draw nearer to the love of God, not by attempting to avoid the sufferings inherent in any love, but by accepting them and offering them to him, by throwing away all defensive armor, taking all risks, descending when he so wills, into all tribulations." 
CS Lewis*

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Love
by Czeslaw Milosz*

Love means to learn to look at yourself
The way one looks at distant things
For you are only one thing among many.
And whoever sees that way heals his heart,
Without knowing it, from various ills--
A bird and a tree say to him: Friend.

Then he wants to use himself and things
So that they stand in the glow of ripeness.
It doesn't matter whether he knows what he serves:
Who serves best doesn't always understand.

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i carry your heart with me
by E. E. Cummings*

i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart)

*Thanks to our friend Michelle for contributing a few of the finer words in this collection!