Sunday, October 17, 2010

Family Night Field Trips: Final Part

Our final plan of salvation outing was a trip to the cemetery.


What is this thing called death
This quiet passing in the night?
Tis not the end but genesis
of better worlds and greater light.

O God, touch Thou my aching heart
And calm my troubled, haunting fears.
Let hope and faith, transcendent, pure,
Give strength and peace beyond my tears.

There is no death, but only change,
With recompense for vict’ry won.
The gift of Him who loved all men,
The Son of God, the Holy One.
Gordon B. Hinckley

(Always loved President Hinckley's poem!!)




We talked about what happens when people die.  We talked about the spirit world.  We discussed the reality of the Savior's resurrection and the reassuring truth that we can be together with people we love even after the separation of death.  It was a meaningful, memorable conclusion to our little series of field-trips - maybe my favorite of them all. The cemetery proved the perfect spot to testify that Christ will truly come to earth again and that resurrection will really happen.

O death where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"Resolve to make the Lord Jesus Christ the living center of your home. Be sure that every decision you make, whether it be of a spiritual or physical nature, be guided by the thought “What would the Lord Jesus Christ have me do?” When the Savior is the center of your home, it is filled with peace and serenity. There is a spirit of calm assurance that pervades the home that is felt by the children and adults alike."  Elder Richard G. Scott, "He Lives! All Glory to His Name!" April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"There is an imperative need for each of us to strengthen our understanding of the significance of the Atonement of Jesus Christ so that it will become an unshakable foundation upon which to build our lives." Elder Richard G. Scott, "He Lives! All Glory to His Name!" April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"What eternal purpose would our Father’s plan of happiness have had except it be made alive through the infinite and eternal Atonement of His gloriously obedient Son? What eternal purpose would have come from the Creation of the earth, where intelligences tabernacled with spirits would receive a body, if death were the end of existence and none would be resurrected? What a glorious moment [Easter] morning was for all who understood its significance. ...Jesus Christ lives. He is our Savior, our Redeemer. He is a glorious, resurrected being. ...He gave His life to break the bonds of death. His Atonement made fully active the plan of happiness of His Father in Heaven. ...Without the Atonement, Father in Heaven’s plan of happiness could not have been placed fully into effect. ...It is vital that we each learn what we can about [the Atonement.  It is the] essential ingredient of our Father in Heaven’s plan of happiness without which that plan could not have been activated." Elder Richard G. Scott, "He Lives! All Glory to His Name!" April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"When I think of the Savior, I often picture Him with hands outstretched, reaching out to comfort, heal, bless, and love. ...He loved the humble and the meek and walked among them, ministering to them and offering hope and salvation.  That is what He did during His mortal life; it is what He would be doing if He were living among us today; and it is what we should be doing as His disciples and members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. ...Christ knows how to minister to others perfectly. When the Savior stretches out His hands, those He touches are uplifted and become greater, stronger, and better people as a result.  If we are His hands, should we not do the same?"  President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "You Are My Hands," April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"From the cross on Calvary, the Savior announced, 'It is finished.' Then His spirit left His body, and His mortal remains were placed lovingly in a tomb. He taught us a lesson by what He did in three days in the spirit world, before His Resurrection, which I remember whenever I am tempted to feel that I have finished some hard task in His service and deserve a rest.

The Savior’s example gives me courage to press on. His labors in mortality were finished, but He entered the spirit world determined to continue His glorious work to save souls. He organized the work of the faithful spirits to rescue those who could still be made partakers of the mercy made possible by His atoning sacrifice"  President Henry B. Eyring, "Act in All Diligence," April 2010

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Family Night Field Trips: Part III

After talking about the Savior, his life and atonement, death and resurrection, we focused our third field trip on the doctrine of Christ:

Faith
Repentance
Baptism
The Gift of the Holy Ghost


We went to our church building and talked about the important ordinances that happen there, particularly baptism and the sacrament.  We talked about the word covenant. We talked about Jesus' invitation: "Come unto me and have everlasting life."   We talked about how we do that.

"Wherefore, they shall come to the knowledge of their Redeemer and the very points of his doctrine that they may know how to come unto him and be saved." (1 Nephi 15:14)

Faith
Repentance
Baptism
The Holy Ghost

"Wherefore, my beloved brethren, I know that if ye shall follow the Son, with full purpose of heart...with real intent, repenting of your sins, witnessing unto the Father that ye are willing to take upon you the name of Christ, by baptism—yea, by following your Lord and your Savior down into the water, according to his word, behold, then shall ye receive the Holy Ghost; yea, then cometh the baptism of fire and of the Holy Ghost."

We continued the conversation as we walked across the street to the temple grounds.  It was a beautiful evening.



"And now, behold, my beloved brethren, this is the way; and there is none other way nor name given under heaven whereby man can be saved in the kingdom of God. And now, behold, this is the doctrine of Christ, and the only and true doctrine of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost, which is one God, without end. Amen."

And amen. =)

Monday, September 13, 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"Looking back, I know for sure that the promises of the Lord, if perhaps not always swift, are always certain. ...Patience means to abide in faith, knowing that sometimes it is in the waiting rather than in the receiving that we grow the most."  President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "Continue in Patience," April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"As the Lord is patient with us, let us be patient with those we serve. Understand that they, like us, are imperfect. They, like us, make mistakes. They, like us, want others to give them the benefit of the doubt.
Never give up on anyone. And that includes not giving up on yourself.
I believe that every one of us, at one time or another, can identify with the servant in Christ’s parable who owed money to the king and who pled with the king, saying, 'Lord, have patience with me.'
...It is my prayer that patience will be a defining characteristic of we who hold the priesthood of Almighty God." President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "Continue in Patience," April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"Patience [is] far more than simply waiting for something to happen—patience require[s] actively working toward worthwhile goals and not getting discouraged when results [don't] appear instantly or without effort.

There is an important concept here: patience is not passive resignation, nor is it failing to act because of our fears. Patience means active waiting and enduring. It means staying with something and doing all that we can—working, hoping, and exercising faith; bearing hardship with fortitude, even when the desires of our hearts are delayed. Patience is not simply enduring; it is enduring well!" President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "Continue in Patience," April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"The father of [a] girl whose life was taken by cancer in her teen years declared, 'Our family’s faith is in Jesus Christ and is not dependent on outcomes.' Those teachings ring true to me. We do all that we can for the healing of a loved one, and then we trust in the Lord for the outcome." Elder Dallin H. Oaks, "Healing the Sick", April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"As children of God, knowing of His great love and His ultimate knowledge of what is best for our eternal welfare, we trust in Him. The first principle of the gospel is faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, and faith means trust."  Elder Dallin H. Oaks, Healing the Sick, April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"In some priesthood blessings—like a patriarchal blessing—the words spoken are the essence of the blessing. But in a healing blessing it is the other parts of the blessing—the anointing, the sealing, faith, and the will of the Lord—that are the essential elements. ...The words spoken in a healing blessing can edify and energize the faith of those who hear them, but the effect of the blessing is dependent upon faith and the Lord’s will, not upon the words spoken by the elder who officiated."  Elder Dallin H. Oaks, Healing the Sick, April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

“The need of faith is often underestimated. The ill one and the family often seem to depend wholly on the power of the priesthood and the gift of healing that they hope the administering brethren may have, whereas the greater responsibility is with him who is blessed."  President Spencer W. Kimball, quoted in, "Healing the Sick," by Elder Dallin H. Oaks, April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"When someone has been anointed by the authority of the Melchizedek Priesthood, the anointing is sealed by that same authority. To seal something means to affirm it, to make it binding for its intended purpose. When elders anoint a sick person and seal the anointing, they open the windows of heaven for the Lord to pour forth the blessing He wills for the person afflicted.

President Brigham Young taught: 'When I lay hands on the sick, I expect the healing power and influence of God to pass through me to the patient, and the disease to give way. . . . When we are prepared, when we are holy vessels before the Lord, a stream of power from the Almighty can pass through the tabernacle of the administrator to the system of the patient, and the sick are made whole.'" Elder Dallin H. Oaks, "Healing the Sick,"  April 2010

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Family Night Field Trips, Part II

Sometimes we talk about the plan of salvation with our children in terms of gifts our Heavenly Father has given us - gifts that enable His plan to progress, gifts that make our "immortality and eternal life" possible.   We find ourselves generally focusing on four central gifts (although, of course, there are more): bodies, agency, the Savior, and the Holy Ghost. 

Our first family night field trip centered on the gift of physical bodies, and the gift of agency - our innate ability to choose between right and wrong.

Of course, all of us, at times, make poor choices, disqualifying us from returning to God's presence if it were not for another gift - the most central gift in God's plan for our happiness  - the gift of Jesus Christ. 

Our second field trip took us to the James Tissot "Life of Christ" exhibit at the MOA.


We looked at pictures of the Savior's birth, life, death, and resurrection, and rejoiced that "God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."


And it was wonderful!
(We'll do a repeat of this field trip again in November when the Carl Bloch (!!) exhibit opens.  And someday, when we don't live next door to a museum replete with religious art, maybe we'll set up our own "gallery"  in the church or in our backyard with pictures from the New Testament gospel art picture kit, etc.  Wouldn't that be fun???)

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Family Night Fileld Trips, Part I

Alma 24:14
"And the great God has had mercy on us, and made these things known unto us that we might not perish; yea, and he has made these things known unto us... because he loveth our souls...; therefore, in his mercy he doth visit us by his angels, that the plan of salvation might be made known unto us."

Wes and I are so grateful for our knowledge of God's plan of salvation.  His plan of happiness.  His great and eternal plan of redemption.  We are grateful for the perspective it provides for us personally and we've been overwhelmingly grateful for it as parents. 

There have been times when I've grappled a little to know how to discuss the topic of Wes's cancer diagnosis with our children (our oldest daughter in particular).  What should we tell them?  What should we not tell them?  The last thing we want is to burden them with "what ifs," but neither do we want to neglect conversations that might be needful or helpful in any way.  So we've prayed and mulled over the subject  a bit.  The [very clear!] guidance we've consistently received is simply:  teach them the plan of salvation. 

Duh. =)

Understanding the plan of salvation is pretty much the ultimate preparation for life, isn't it - no matter our various challenges and trials?!

Yes. It is.

So we, like you, try to spend time teaching our children the plan.  Most of that teaching is informally and naturally connected to our day to day living.  But of course we've also tried to find ways to teach the topic deliberately and directly.  We thought it would be fun to share some of the things that have worked for us in hopes that you'll share some of the things that have worked for you!  (Deal?! =)

One idea we discussed and carried out this summer involved a series of family night field trips.  You'll see right where this is going, but I'm going to do a separate post for each different trip (to save me from uploading a gazillion more pictures and to save you from reading a gazillion more paragraphs!).

Our first Monday outing was to the hospital where our children were born. 


We reminisced about each of their special birth-days.  We found pictures of tiny babies on the walls and talked about where our spirits lived before birth, why Heavenly Father sent us to earth, and why it was important for us to have bodies.  We sang I Am a Child of God, and I Lived in Heaven (I love that song!), and it was all very simple and low key. 


But it was fun and memorable and I know we'll do it again because it was so nostalgic of those near-to-heaven newborn days.  (Next time we'll take pictures of our kids as newborns!  It would have been fun to look through those as we reminisced!)

Another field trip post next week!  In the meantime, thanks to Jeanine for sending a link to this celebration of the Family Proclamation!  Check it out!  And thanks to Katie for the heads up about approved art!!!

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Be of Good Cheer

A few of these verses were referred to in our meetings today. 
We thought it was powerful to read them all together.

Matthew 9:2  "And, behold, they brought to [Christ] a man sick of the palsy, lying on a bed: and Jesus seeing their faith said unto the sick of the palsy; Son, be of good cheer; thy sins be forgiven thee."

Matthew 14: 27 "But straightway Jesus spake unto them, saying, Be of good cheer; it is I; be not afraid."

John 16:33 "These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world."

Acts 23:11 (of Paul in prison) "And the night following the Lord stood by him, and said, Be of good cheer, Paul."

3 Nephi 1:13  "Lift up your head and be of good cheer; for behold, the time is at hand, and on this night shall the sign be given, and on the morrow come I into the world, to show unto the world that I will fulfil all that which I have caused to be spoken by the mouth of my holy prophets."

D&C 61:36  "And now, verily I say unto you, and what I say unto one I say unto all, be of good cheer, little children; for I am in your midst, and I have not forsaken you"

D&C 68: 6 Wherefore, be of good cheer, and do not fear, for I the Lord am with you, and will stand by you; and ye shall bear record of me, even Jesus Christ, that I am the Son of the living God, that I was, that I am, and that I am to come.

D&C 78: 18  "And ye cannot bear all things now; nevertheless, be of good cheer, for I will lead you along."

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Bearing Record

Our good friend Lindsay Anderson contributed today's post.  Thank you, Lindsay!

The importance of keeping a record is repeatedly taught in the Book of Mormon. In fact, that is what the Book of Mormon is -- a kept record.

Nephi was asked to obtain the records contained in the brass plates of Laban. He was also asked to keep a record of his own people. Enos was so concerned with the importance of the record that he asked the Lord to preserve it. The entire book of Omni -- all 30 verses -- is an example of how crucial all five authors knew that keeping the record was. They may have only penned a few sentences in their lifetime, but small or not, they knew that what they were doing was significant. And these examples only come from the first 150 pages!

But why? Why so much emphasis and struggle to keep and maintain this record?

Well, first and foremost, it was a commandment. After Nephi had made the plates "by way of commandment," he writes that, "I, Nephi, received a commandment that the ministry and the prophecies, the more plain and precious parts of them, should be written upon these plates; and that the things which were written should be kept for the instruction of my people, who should possess the land, and also for other wise purposes, which purposes are known unto the Lord" (see 1 Nephi 19:3).

That it was a commandment should be reason enough, but as we learn from Amaleki in the book of Omni, if a record wasn't kept, the language of a people (in this case, the people of Zarahemla) would become corrupted and lost and as a result they would not know their Creator.

Which brings up perhaps the most important reason a record was kept: to teach those who would read it -- to teach us -- to come unto Christ. As Mormon writes,

"And I do this for a wise purpose; for thus it whispereth me, according to the workings of the Spirit of the Lord which is in me. And now, I do not know all things; but the Lord knoweth all things which are to come; wherefore, he worketh in me to do according to his will.

"And my prayer to God is concerning my brethren, that they may once again come to the knowledge of God, yea, the redemption of Christ; that they may once again be a delightsome people" (Words of Mormon 1:7-8).

And as King Benjamin teaches his sons:

"My sons, I would that ye should remember that were it not for these plates, which contain these records and these commandments, we must have suffered in ignorance, even at this present time, not knowing the mysteries of God.

"For it were not possible that our father, Lehi, could have remembered all these things, to have taught them to his children, except it were for the help of these plates; for he having been taught in the language of the Egyptians therefore he could read these engravings, and teach them to his children, that thereby they could teach them to their children, and so fulfilling the commandments of God, even down to this present time.

"I say unto you, my sons, were it not for these things, which have been kept and preserved by the hand of God, that we might read and understand of his mysteries, and have his commandments always before our eyes, that even our fathers would have dwindled in unbelief, and we should have been like unto our brethren, the Lamanites, who know nothing concerning these things, or even do not believe them when they are taught them, because of the traditions of their fathers, which are not correct.

"O my sons, I would that ye should remember that these sayings are true, and also that these records are true. And behold, also the plates of Nephi, which contain the records and the sayings of our fathers from the time they left Jerusalem until now, and they are true; and we can know of their surety because we have them before our eyes.

"And now, my sons, I would that ye should remember to search them diligently, that ye may profit thereby; and I would that ye should keep the commandments of God, that ye may prosper in the land according to the promises which the Lord made unto our fathers" (Mosiah 1:3-7).

In the last few weeks, as I came to these verses in my daily scripture reading, I found myself "likening them unto myself." It hit me that keeping a record of my own -- whether it be via a personal journal, a blog, a photo album with captions -- is not too unlike what the Nephites were asked to do. It is something I have been asked by modern prophets to do because it will serve a wise purpose, which purpose is known unto the Lord.
As I thumb back over the things I have written, the records I've kept, I've realized that when I write honestly about the things I do each day and the thoughts I have while doing them, my testimony can't help but seep through. The same thing happened as the Nephites wrote about repairing broken bows, building ships and traveling through the wilderness, marching to war, and ultimately witnessing Christ himself as He visited and taught them in the Americas. As routine as their lives might have sometimes seemed on a daily basis, they wrote about them anyway. They wrote because it was a commandment and would serve a wise purpose, and as they did so, as they bore their record, their testimonies were not only apparent, they blossomed.

Just as ours can when we read the Book of Mormon, and just as they will when we bear records of our own.

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Comforting

You know how life is crazy?
You know how consistent, meaningful scripture study is hard to come by?
You know how that's sometimes frustrating?

I know I feel frustrated by that sometimes as a young mom.
Because praying and studying are how we connect, right?  They are the means we use to commune with our Father in Heaven.  Yes, they are.

But President Uchtdorf taught a profound truth two conferences ago in his talk on "The Love of God."
It's a truth I have treasured as a mother of small children:

"Listen for the voice of the Father in the bounties and beauties of nature, in the gentle whisperings of the Spirit.  In your daily interactions with others, in the words of a hymn, in the laughter of a child, listen for His voice."

In the laughter of  child.

Scripture study is so necessary.
And private, quiet prayer is truly powerful. 
Neither are to be neglected.

But when I fall asleep during my evening prayers or on top of my good intentions, Pres. Uchtdorf's words bring me comfort. They remind me that I can find my Father in Heaven in other moments, too. I can find him in the love and laughter of my children.  I just have to listen.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

"That Imperial Palace Whence [We] Came"

Sorry for the lag round these parts!  Sometimes you just have to drop the ball, you know??

A couple of months ago, we had friends over for dinner.  They were fairly new acquaintances and so we spent a few minutes asking typical get-to-know-you questions.  After, "and where are you from?" was exchanged a few times, my four year old daughter tilted her head thoughtfully to the side and asked her dad, "Where am I from?"

Heaven, I answered in my heart.

And I really believe that.  I believe that each of us - every man and woman on the earth - are spirit sons and daughters of God and that we lived with Him, our Heavenly Father, before we came to earth.  I've been told that other organized faiths generally don't espouse that belief.  But it's a belief that seems so natural to me.

Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting:

The Soul that rises with us, our life's Star,
Hath had elsewhere its setting,
And cometh from afar:
Not in entire forgetfulness,
And not in utter nakedness,
But trailing clouds of glory do we come
From God, who is our home:*

William Wordsworth's words are familiar to most of us, aren't they? 

Earth...the homely Nurse doth all she can

To make her Foster-child, her Inmate Man,
Forget the glories he hath known,
And that imperial palace whence he came.*

That "imperial palace," that "mighty home," (I love that Charlotte Bronte phrase from Jane Eyre).

But why discuss premortality at all?  Well, I think Wordsworth is right:

[These] shadowy recollections, (or, better, these revealed truths!)
...be they what they may,
Are yet the fountain light of all our day,
Are yet a master light of all our seeing;*

Isn't that true?  Knowledge of our premortal existence with God totally illuminates our understanding of earth life.  Latter-day Saint doctrine teaches that our earthly experience was established by God, our Father, as a critical, temporary piece of our eternal, long-term development.  Makes sense doesn't it?  Aren't growth and development what all good parents are preoccupied with?  I like this description, that: "just as most of us leave our home and parents when we grow up, God knew [we] needed to do the same. He knew [we] couldn’t progress unless [we] left for a while. So he allowed [us] to come to earth to experience the joy—as well as pain—of a physical body."

I was talking with a friend this weekend about some significant trails and we both took comfort in the knowledge that experiencing pain is one of the primary reasons Heavenly Father sent us to earth.  When emotional and physical burdens feel heavy,  acknowledging "this is why I"m here," always, always, always gives me courage and hope. 

I love Elder Maxwell's words:  "Enoch, to whom the Lord revealed so much, praised God amid His vast creations, exclaiming reassuringly, 'Yet thou art there' (Moses 7:30; see also Jer. 10:12).  This same special assurance can see each of us through all the seasons and circumstances of our lives. A universal God is actually involved with our small, individual universes of experience! In the midst of His vast dominions, yet He numbers us, knows us, and loves us perfectly (see Moses 1:35; John 10:14).
...[But] even though [Enoch] knew he had been called personally by a personal God, [he] wrestled with feelings of personal inadequacy (see Moses 6:31). Enoch also wept over the human condition, but he was told, 'Lift up your heart, and be glad; and look' (Moses 7:44). If Enoch had not looked and been spiritually informed, he would have seen the human condition in isolation from the grand reality. If God were not there, Enoch’s 'Why?' would have become an unanswered scream of despair!"

But we need not despair.  Because our lives "didn’t begin at birth and...won’t end at death" (mormon.org).  We need not despair, because we can view human suffering in connection with Heavenly Father's eternal plan of happiness.  We need not despair, because our Father sent His Son to make our happiness and our development and our eternal salvation possible, ensuring that,

Though inland far we be,
Our Souls have sight of that immortal sea
Which brought us hither.*
And not only "sight of" - but hope to return  (Ecc. 12: 7).


*Ode: Intimations of Immortality from Recollections of Early Childhood, William Wordsworth

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Receive

My talented, generous, wonderful friend Rebecca Scott sent these thoughts to post. 
Thanks, Rebecca!

The word "receive" is something that the bishop of our last BYU married ward (who was amazing) really emphasized. Soon after he became our new bishop, he challenged us to pray and ponder what the most important word in the gospel is. People came up with different answers like "love," and "faith," but he explained that this word came before those. That is when I realized that the word was "receive." As our bishop explained, before we can love someone, we must receive them. Before we can have faith we must receive the gospel. Receiving is the first step toward any progress. As he showed us the importance of receiving, I started to ponder what exactly it meant to receive. It seemed important to me, but I had never heard anyone else emphasize its importance or talk about it in detail before.


I spent a long time thinking about it. First of all, I started to think about what sort of things we “receive” and how this word is used. We receive many things in this life. As we go through our lives, we may receive answers, the gospel, blessings, Christ, grace, responsibility, callings, love, and many other such things. We receive the Holy Ghost, the priesthood, endowments, and a spouse. We could not physically survive on this earth without receiving, because to live we must receive food, water, oxygen, and shelter. Likewise, we cannot survive spiritually without receiving. If we do not work to progress spiritually, we will lose what light we have, eventually resulting in spiritual death (see Alma 12:10-11).

It is important to note that in order for us to receive something, it must be given. We receive everything we have, either directly or indirectly from God. He gives us life, love, blessings, the Holy Ghost, ordinances and covenants, prophets, power, the priesthood, responsibility, etc. All these things are gifts. In fact, we commonly refer to many of the things He gives us as such: the Gift of the Holy Ghost, Gifts of the Spirit, the Gift of the Atonement, etc.

Yet obviously not all gifts are given to everyone in this world. Why? Because we cannot have God’s gifts without receiving them. (Other factors also play into this which I will not detail much here, but that should be noted. For example, time. Not all gifts are given to everyone right now because the Lord’s timing for those gifts has not been reached yet. For this reason certain nations and peoples do not yet have access to the gospel, many good people have not yet found an eternal companion to be sealed to in the temple, etc.)

Receiving is the first step to progressing. For example, we can only gain a testimony after first receiving the gospel. (See Moroni 10:4). We must receive the Holy Ghost for it to benefit us. We receive the priesthood before exercising it. We receive a spouse to start a family and receive children.

So, what is involved in receiving? Well, every blessing has a law upon which it is predicated (D&C 130:20-21), so the requirements for receiving different things will vary some depending on what gift is at stake. However, for most things within the gospel, in order to receive gifts from God we must be worthy of them. As we receive and follow the laws we have been given, we will be worthy to receive higher laws/blessings/gifts. Receiving involves proper use of what we are being given. If we abuse or misuse it, it will be taken from us. If we break the “law” or covenant we made to receive that thing, it will be taken from us. Thus receiving involves a level of responsibility to use what we have been given wisely as God intended us too. In many cases, such as receiving the priesthood, this involves blessing the lives of those around us. All the gifts we receive are meant to help us progress and learn too. Thus, God’s gifts are blessings and responsibilities for His children. I believe receiving then them means we are accepting both the responsibilities and blessings that come from any gift God gives us.

I think that the marriage/sealing covenant is a very special covenant that is a bit unique in that it involves a giving and receiving covenant between two people plus God rather than just between God and an individual. The covenants we make at the alter in the sealing room of the temple are not just to God, but to our spouse. By listening carefully to the words, I think that one can understand how a marriage relationship made under this covenant should be a continuous round of each spouse receiving and giving.

In the end, all giving and receiving has both sides involved in both parts to some extent, even with our Heavenly Father. As I have read the scriptures, I have noticed how God is usually referred to as the one giving. God gives us everything. If we are faithful, then through Christ we will be able to receive God’s greatest gift: Eternal Lives. Through Christ’s atonement, God then will be able to receive us into His presence and into His kingdom (see 2 Nephi 10:25). We will be able to be a blessing to God who has taken the responsibility for us as His spiritual children.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"I bear witness that parents who consistently read and talk about the Book of Mormon with their children, who share testimony spontaneously with their children, and who invite children as gospel learners to act and not merely be acted upon will be blessed with eyes that can see afar off (see Moses 6:27) and with ears that can hear the sound of the trumpet (see Ezekiel 33:2–16). The spiritual discernment and inspiration you will receive from the combination of these three holy habits will enable you to stand as watchmen on the tower for your families—“watching . . . with all perseverance” (Ephesians 6:18)."  Elder David A. Bednar, "Watching with All Perseverance," April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"Parents should be vigilant and spiritually attentive to spontaneously occurring opportunities to bear testimony to their children. Such occasions need not be programmed, scheduled, or scripted. In fact, the less regimented such testimony sharing is, the greater the likelihood for edification and lasting impact. “Neither take ye thought beforehand what ye shall say; but treasure up in your minds continually the words of life, and it shall be given you in the very hour that portion that shall be meted unto every man” (D&C 84:85)."  Elder David A. Bednar, "Watching with All Perseverance," April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"Regular reading of and talking about the Book of Mormon invite the power to resist temptation and to produce feelings of love within our families. And discussions about the doctrines and principles in the Book of Mormon provide opportunities for parents to observe their children, to listen to them, to learn from them, and to teach them.

Youth of all ages, even infants, can and do respond to the distinctive spirit of the Book of Mormon. Children may not understand all of the words and stories, but they certainly can feel the “familiar spirit” described by Isaiah (Isaiah 29:4; see also 2 Nephi 26:16)."  Elder David A. Bednar, "Watching with All Perseverance,"  April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"The convincing and converting powers of the Book of Mormon come from both a central focus upon the Lord Jesus Christ and the inspired plainness and clarity of its teachings.  ...The unique combination of these two factors—a focus on the Savior and the plainness of the teachings—powerfully invites the confirming witness of the third member of the Godhead, even the Holy Ghost. Consequently, the Book of Mormon speaks to the spirit and to the heart of the reader like no other volume of scripture." Elder David A. Bednar, Watching with All Perseverance,"  April 2010

Sunday, July 4, 2010

God Bless America


"[Many places] have special meaning not so much for the soil or brick itself but because of what has happened (or will yet happen) there.

'...From lowest place when virtuous things proceed, the place is dignified by the doer’s deed,' said Shakespeare. (All’s Well That Ends Well, II. iii. 123–24.)

The most sacred of places, then, will always be those locations which God has designated for holy and eternal purposes, locations where he is the 'doer of the deed.' ...America is such a place."  Jeffrey R. Holland, "A Promised Land," July 1976

(The whole talk is worth a read, friends!  Happy 4th!)

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Thanks!

Just wanted to say thank you to all who participated in the Father's Day festivities last week!  It was fun!  We're using today to catch up on our conference quotes (I alway mean to post these during the week.  Then I never do.).  See you again next Sunday (hooray for the Fourth of July!)!

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"In the end, the central purpose of all scripture is to fill our souls with faith in God the Father and in His Son, Jesus Christ—faith that They exist; faith in the Father’s plan for our immortality and eternal life; faith in the Atonement and Resurrection of Jesus Christ, which animates this plan of happiness; faith to make the gospel of Jesus Christ our way of life; and faith to come to know “the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom [He has] sent” (John 17:3)."  Elder D. Todd Christofferson, "The Blessing of Scripture,"  April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"Never in history has a people been blessed with such a quantity of holy writ. And not only that, but every man, woman, and child may possess and study his or her own personal copy of these sacred texts, most in his or her own language. ...Surely with this blessing the Lord is telling us that our need for constant recourse to the scriptures is greater than in any previous time. May we feast continuously on the words of Christ that will tell us all things we should do (see 2 Nephi 32:3)."  Elder D. Todd Christofferson, "The Blessing of Scripture,"  April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"Study the scriptures carefully, deliberately. Ponder and pray over them. Scriptures are revelation, and they will bring added revelation." Elder D. Todd Christofferson, "The Blessing of Scripture,"  April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"Because they expound the doctrine of Christ, the scriptures are accompanied by the Holy Spirit, whose role it is to bear witness of the Father and the Son (see 3 Nephi 11:32). Therefore, being in the scriptures is one way we receive the Holy Ghost." Elder D. Todd Christofferson, "The Blessing of Scripture,"  April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"Many today would dispute with Alma about the seriousness of immorality. Others would argue that it’s all relative or that God’s love is permissive. If there is a God, they say, He excuses all sins and misdeeds because of His love for us—there is no need for repentance. Or at most, a simple confession will do. They have imagined a Jesus who wants people to work for social justice but who makes no demands upon their personal life and behavior.  But a God of love does not leave us to learn by sad experience that “wickedness never was happiness” (Alma 41:10; see also Helaman 13:38)." Elder D. Todd Christofferson, "The Blessing of Scripture,"  April 2010

Come, Listen to a Prophet's Voice

"Parents must bring light and truth into their homes by one family prayer, one scripture study session, one family home evening, one book read aloud, one song, and one family meal at a time. They know that the influence of righteous, conscientious, persistent, daily parenting is among the most powerful and sustaining forces for good in the world."  Elder L. Tom Perry, "Mothers Teaching Children in the Home," April 2010

Sunday, June 20, 2010

For Father's Day


"As a child, my father would take me for walks in the late afternoon. He would point out things along the way: a bird’s nest hidden in a tree, a bee amid the flowers that would create sweet honey. The wonders of the earth came to my attention without hurry. We’d taste a new strawberry, pick a pea pod and delight at the yummy little round ‘balls’ inside. 'Walk in my shadow. I’ll be your shade,' he might say. How good it was to be a child, exploring, learning the natural miracles of the changing seasons and mysteries of life. Sometimes, early in the morning, he would gather us all up in our PJ’s and coats to drive through white fairylands of snow. Ah, sweet memories. I see the same thing happening as the father of MY children and grandchildren takes a little hand to explore and investigate...


Again, I watch the influence of a great man casting a large, comforting shadow across the heat of the day.
I remember with glistening eyes, and treasure the lasting influence of a FATHER."  -DeAnna Packer

(from Vicky Deursch)

 
(From Anna Frost)
    
(From Brenda Haertel)

(From Brenda Haertel)


(From Suzy Wirth)
 
(From DeAnna Packer)

(Book of Mormon stories; from Lori)

(From Jacque Elkington)

"Fatherhood is to be captured in so many instances. There’s the calm moments of napping together or reading together. There’s the special moments of watching your child achieve something for the first time(or couple times). There’s the energetic moments of playing together, running together, teasing & tickling. And then there’s moments like this where the father gets to introduce his child to something new in this world and you have a sweet moment of love and learning."  -Megan Hansen

(From Megan Hansen) 

"My husband was nervous to be a father, because he didn't have the first clue with what to do with a baby. But as soon as our little guy was here, it was like he'd always been one."  -Mara Hinton

(From Mara Hinton, picture by Alycia Hinton, puzzlepiecephotography.com)

(From Jeanine Crane)


 
(From Lori)

(From Heather Bigler)

"When [my husband] moved up to Washington from Utah three weeks before my due date we were aware of the possibility that the baby might be born with us in separate states. ...A day after Paul arrived at our new house [in Washington], Rhett was born. [Paul] managed to fly with our older son back to Utah later that day and you could tell from seeing them together that it was worth the trip." -Vicky Deursch

 
(From Vicky Deursch)

Certainly, Dads are special.
And aren't they the most fun?! 

(From DeAnna Packer)

"I love this picture because it epitomizes what our daddy does for our family- brings optimism and cheerfulness to every situation." -Katie Lewis

(From Lori)

(From Jeanine Crane)

(From Anna Frost)

(From Gail Pidduck)

(From Amy Fitzgibbons.  Yes, those are twins!)

(From Jeanine Crane)

 
(From Anna Frost)

(From Heather Bigler)

And let's not forget grandpas!
"I used to see Grandpa Packer (not pictured) take a toddler quietly from a room full of people visiting. Then I'd notice in the other room a chubby hand with a cookie and a smile. Grandpa's are good people." -DeAnna W. Packer

(From Lucinda Truman)

(From DeAnna Packer)

(From Lori)

(From Gail Pidduck)

(From Gail Pidduck)


"After a LONG day and many failed nap attempts, Grandbill was the one to lull these girls to sleep. He was mostly sleeping, but I love that little wry smile my dad has on." -CJ Carter


(From Lucinda Truman)

Some dads are in our homes (and hearts!) daily. 

"I'm so glad when Daddy comes home!"
(From CJ Carter)

(From CJ Carter)

(From Jeanine Crane)

(From Lori)

(From Amy Pincock)

Other dads live in our memories.
(From Gail Pidduck)

(From Jeanine Crane)

(From DeAnna Packer)

(from Jeanine Crane)

"[My dad] was always a farmer and his harvest was always bountiful whatever he tended, a garden, a flock, or a family."  -Lucinda Truman (painting by Gail Pidduck)


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"If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?" Matthew 7:11 

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Happy Father's Day!